CCAR RESPONSA
Contemporary American Reform Responsa
90. Funeral Without Rabbi or
Cantor
QUESTION: Is is appropriate for a funeral service to be
conducted by a family member or a friend of the family without a rabbi or cantor present? Does
this diminish in any way the authentic Jewishness of the service when family members or friends
conduct the service? (Rabbi D. Polish, Hollywood, CA)ANSWER: There is
absolutely nothing in traditional literature or in modern Reform decisions which demand the
presence of a rabbi or cantor at a funeral, or for that matter, at any other Jewish religious
occasion. State or provincial law may require an “ordained clergyman” to preside over a wedding
ceremony, but Jewish law has no such stipulation. We have been, and remain, a religion without
clergy, and we continue the historic role of the rabbi primarily as a teacher, judge, and religious
leader rather than a functionary at specific occasions. The evolution of the rabbinate
to its present state in which the rabbi leads services and conducts weddings, funerals, etc., is
part of the specialization of modern society as well as the feeling of inadequacy on the part of
many Jews, Orthodox, Conservative or Reform, in conducting Jewish ceremonies. The desire to
have matters go smoothly, to remove the burden of preparation and the anxiety for specific life
cycle occasions has led most Jews to rely completely on the rabbi or a cantor for rites of passage
and other ceremonies. This may be useful, but as a long term trend it is not healthy, for our vigor
lies in the ability of the ordinary Jew to execute any Jewish rite and thereby to perpetuate
Judaism wherever he may happen to be. There is nothing in our tradition which would
in any way diminish the authentic Jewishness of a funeral service conducted entirely by family
and friends.June 1986
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